A WOMAN has shared the double-edged sword of going braless and told others to stop moaning as they embrace freedom.
The TikTok creator brands herself as “real, raw, and unfiltered on life” as she shares her honest and sometimes controversial opinions.
Shandi (@shandi_unfiltered) discussed how much she hates bras and has come to accept that men with a “one-track mind” will stare.
In the video, Shandi is sitting in her car ranting about the issues women face when they go braless but that expecting to get looks is the only way forward.
She explained the “double-sided sword of “freeing the titties” after she blasts bras for being “uncomfortable and annoying.”
“They look like s**t like they’re just not fun in any way shape, or form,” Shandi added.
The tiktoker believes in empowering women and how women can express their freedom by ditching the bra and “wearing whatever the hell we want.”
She explained that it is obvious when she goes braless due the size of her girls.
Shandi continued: “I absolutely empower all women to do so because it’s natural, it’s better…however, the women that do it and then complain after men are staring…
“Well, I think it’s just a natural reaction, number one they’re men, typically they have a one-way track mind whereas we think about a lot of other things.
“We do it for freedom and we can’t expect their minds to work that way.”
The unfiltered content creator told women to absolutely go braless “but don’t get mad when people stare.”
The TikToker says that she does not welcome or want the attention but has accepted it will happen.
She added that regardless of whether it is a man or a woman who stares or seems judgemental: “That’s their problem, not yours.”
“You have the freedom to do it but also accept the fact that you’re gonna get that happening,” she said.
“I don’t want it, but at least I’ve accepted and I’m comfortable with it because this is what I wanna do for myself and it’s not about the attention at all, it’s about the fact that I don’t enjoy bras.”
Women in the comments supported her views with one saying: “I love not wearing a bra! They are the worst and I couldn’t care less who notices. It’s more common again so everyone will get used to it.”
Others called her “fantastic” and “fabulous” with one telling women “be who you are.”
The U.S. Sun has previously reported on a mom who is not fazed when men stare at her as she goes braless in public.
Source: The Sun